I write about the invisible systems shaping how we think, how we love, how we work, and how we build our lives — and what shifts when we finally see them. Sometimes that's an essay about identity. Sometimes it's about parenting, or leaving a belief system, or why the thing you've been calling a character flaw is actually an adaptation that made sense at the time.

I'm working on a book called They Were Wrong About You. Until it's done, the best of my thinking goes to Substack.

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